Dating sites are a meat market. Men are sitting in the deli case, women choose the cuts that suit them best. Unlike a meat market though, all sales are not final, and shenanigans are going on under the table. Matches happen on the basis of looks, or utility. The best looking men are matched for sex, the mundane men are matched for meals, gifts, labor, attention, and as plan B candidates to be placed on the back burner just in case that 1 in a million relationship with a far more attractive guy comes crashing down.

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Meeting someone from a dating site

1. The person’s personality is far different from their description. People often will write how they want to be versus how they actually are, or they simply don’t know how to describe themselves well. Meet as soon as possible to help avoid this.
2. Matched with a college athlete, met in person, had “recently” developed a love of beer, and the red face and belly that accompany it.
3. Matched with someone 100% my type, total rockstar in person. If I believed in love at first sight, it was him. (He travels for work, I absolutely enjoyed my very short time with him.)
4. Online dating is a never-ending fountain of choice, and it can heighten the need to find the ideal “totally perfect” partner which doesn’t actually exist. Some people have a hard time committing for this reason.If you’re a girl it’s a meat market and you have far more choices with people who will respond than men do — it’s just the way it is. Kind of like real life but greatly exacerbated.
5. Online dating is somewhat superficial, but it’s fairly easy to be “attractive enough” to obtain interest.

• Remember if it looks to good and sounds to good it most likely is. Choose free and safe dating